IWIL Catalyst – January 2024

  • There Are Many Good Reasons to Participate in Dry January

 

New Year’s Day is a traditional window for evaluating accomplishments, setbacks, and lessons learned from the prior year. There’s also the time-honored custom of setting resolutions and making plans for the upcoming 12-months. Dry January can be part of that process.

For Mary Beth O’Connor, childhood abuse and other traumas led to substance use disorder (addiction).

Beginning with alcohol at age 12, she spent several years abusing various drugs. She found methamphetamine at 16 and started shooting up at 17. Mary Beth struggled with meth until she was 32 years old. By incorporating ideas from multiple sources to build a secular (not 12-step or faith based) recovery plan that works for her, Mary Beth has been sober since 1994. She used similar techniques to address the trauma and related anxiety as well.

Mary Beth is a board member for LifeRing Secular Recovery and She Recovers Foundation. She speaks on behalf of these organizations, about multiple paths to recovery, and about all topics related to substance use disorder and recovery. She also speaks about sexual abuse and rape, child abuse, domestic violence, ptsd, anxiety, and recovering from these as well.

Mary Beth’s award-winning memoir, From Junkie to Judge: One Woman’s Triumph Over Trauma and Addiction, is available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Bamm, Indie Bound, and other sites, and at your local bookstore. She also has placed essays in publications such as The Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, and Recovery Today.

Professionally, 6 years into recovery, Mary Beth attended Berkeley Law. She worked at a large firm in Silicon Valley, then litigated class actions for the federal government. In 2014, Mary Beth was appointed a federal Administrative Law Judge, a position from which she retired in 2020.

  • You Will Not Break My Soul

 

When their law firm reopened at the end of the pandemic, two black women associates requested extended leave. They were the only employees at the firm to make such a request. The law firm’s human resources director was surprised. As a black woman and longtime attorney, I am not. The number of black female attorneys is so low that we are practically invisible. Because of this, our experiences are rarely, if ever, acknowledged by anyone except us. This cannot continue.

Stephanie Mitchell Hughes is an attorney, Mental Health Innovator, and Workplace Disrupter. She has lived with depression and what she describes as generous episodes of suicidal ideation for more than four decades. Stephanie writes about, speaks, and presents workshops on living with a mental illness, resilience, well-being in the legal profession, navigating change amid disruption, healthy workplaces, and life with Long COVID. She seeks to respectfully disrupt the stigma associated with mental illness and suicide. Stephanie’s work appears in several publications including Medium, The Good Men Project, and others by invitation. Stephanie talked about why we must fully embrace life’s hard places at TedxColumbus.

  • Mental Well-Being Preparedness for All:
    Strategies for Enhancing Well-Being Regardless of Your Starting Point

 

In the demanding and often high-pressure world of the legal profession, the significance of mental health takes on a particularly critical role. Lawyers, paralegals, and others within the law industry frequently face intense stress, tight deadlines, and high-stakes scenarios, making their mental well-being an area that needs attention and care. Yet, in an industry where thought, resilience and toughness are highly valued, mental health concerns can be easily overlooked or undervalued, leading to not just personal distress but also professional repercussions. Moreover, improving and maintaining mental well-being should not just be for those who currently have poor mental well-being, but for everyone. Mental well-being preparedness is a skill that everyone can develop, regardless of your current state of mind.

Matthew S. Thiese, PhD, MSPH

Dr. Thiese has extensive experience in designing and conducting epidemiologic and interventional research. His research focuses on the overlap between a person’s job and their health, including everything from musculoskeletal disorders like Low Back Pain or Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, to motor vehicle crashes, to COVID-19, to mental well-being. His research seeks to identify potential risk factors, interventions to prevent injury or illness, evidence-based practice for both treatment and prevention, and assessments of worker health and safety fitness-for-duty. Dr. Thiese currently is conducting research in several different areas of mental health and mental fitness in the law profession.

Dr. Thiese’s graduate degrees are in Public Health, specifically Occupational Epidemiology and Injury Prevention. He is a tenured Associate Professor at the University of Utah School of Medicine and has co-authored numerous articles. He also serves on the board for the Institute for Well-Being in Law as the Vice-President for Research and Scholarship.

January 2024

IWIL ALERT

NEWS & MORE

THE ED REPORT – Denise Gaskin

New Yearís Intentions.

The New Year always causes me to stop and reflect on what the past year brought and what might be up next, personally and professionally.

Not necessarily New Yearís Resolutions, but more along the lines of intentions for the year. What might bring something valuable this year?

Here are some resources that could support New Yearís Intentions.

  • Join us at the Nationís Largest Legal Well-Being Conference, January 23-25. Register here for three days of well-being education, ideas, and connection.
  • Mary Beth OíConnor shares her article about the benefits of a Dry (or Damp) January through abstinence or reduction of alcohol.
  • Stephanie Mitchell Hughes shares her story about workplace toxicity and how she survived and found her way out and beyond. You can hear Stephanie speak live at the Well-Being Conference!
  • Dr. Matt Thiese provides compelling information in his article on Mental Preparedness. He delivers a roadmap to help us regain good mental health or maintain current levels of resilience.

Happy New Year, and hereís to more Well-Being in Law!

 

Denise

IWIL CONFERENCE

Join us for the Nationís Largest Legal Well-Being Conference on January 23-25, 2024!

#IWIL2024

We provide four unique well-being tracks: Individual, Workplace, State & Local Task Forces, and Law School.

Over 50 experts share their stories, research, ideas, and inspiring messages to support individual and workplace well-being.

Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor of Psychology and Head of Silliman College, Yale University, presents the Keynote on Getting Unstuck: Reconnect, Re-Engage, & Revitalize. 

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FROM IWIL’S CATALYST TEAM

Original content from the IWIL community on the subject matters that matter:

Dry January by Mary Beth OíConnor

 

There is a time-honored tradition that over 20% of Americans participate in each January- abstaining (dry) or reducing (damp) the amount of alcohol intake for January. Learn why considering a Dry January could be beneficial.

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You Will Not Break My Soul by Stephanie Mitchell Hughes

Stephanie Mitchell Hughes shares her story of the toil of working in a toxic environment and how she discovered a new path of hope and well-being, letting go and moving on.

Stephanie will also speak at #IWIL2024 during the Wednesday session Journeys Unveiled: Navigating Mental Health and Advocacy for Black Women in the Legal Profession at 11:00 am ET.

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Mental Preparedness for All by Matthew Thiese, PhD, MSPH

Dr. Matt Thiese brings us a look at the intense stress of the legal profession, ways we can acknowledge the unique pressures faced in our field, and ways to foster a healthier, more productive professional life. Learn critical strategies for improving or maintaining good mental health.

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WHAT WE ARE READING

Gavin Alexander wrote about his observations and suggestions about the impact of supervisory and managerial relationships on lawyer well-being and how these relationships can be improved by focusing on achieving non-judgmental clarity.

 

Here is a link to Gavin’s article in PLI Chronicle: Influencing Lawyer Well-Being with Collaborative Clarity

Laura Mahr, Esq. again provides us with some articles she shared with the NC State Bar Journal and the NC Lawyer Assistance Program.

  • Bypassing Burnout Beliefs: Eight Steps to Transform Beliefs that Exhaust You (NC Bar)
  • 10 Questions to Unearth Subconscious Stuckness and Transform Limiting Beliefs (NCLAP)
  • The podcast Transform Limiting Beliefs correlates with the “10 Questions” article and gives listeners a chance to listen as I guide Candace Hoffman, NCLAP Field Coordinator, and podcast host, through the ten questions and then allow listeners to try it for themselves. (NCLAP) ??
  • Mental Health Support is Top Lawyer Wellness Perk (Bloomberg Law)
  • Making it Back: Bruce Simpson tried to take his own life, then he started healing (ABA Journal)
  • Law360 Post regarding IWIL’s Response to the 5th Circuit Decision (Law360)

WELCOME NEW IWIL BOARD MEMBERS

IWIL welcomes five new Directors to our Board this month. We are so grateful for the talent, enthusiasm, and dedication for well-being in law. Welcome aboard!

Tara Antonipillai, Founder & Principal, Cultivate

www.cultivate.center

Marcie Dickson, President,

Tapestry ADR
https://www.namadr.com/tapestry-adr/

Michael Ellenhorn, Founder & CEO, Decipher Investigative Intelligence www.decipherintel.com

Mike Kasdan, Partner,

Wiggin & Dana

www.wiggin.com

Natalie Loeb, Founder & Co-CEO,

Loeb Leadership

www.loebleadership.com

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Special thanks to our principal donors:

Inaugural Founding Champions 

Crowell & Moring LLP

Katten Muchin Rosenman LLP

Latham & Watkins, LLP

Morgan, Lewis & Bockius LLP

Reed Smith LLP

Founding Champions

Akin Gump Strauss Hauer & Feld LLP

Mintz, Levin, Cohn, Ferris, Glovsky and Popeo, P.C.

Orrick, Herrington & Sutcliffe LLP

Thomson Reuters

Master of Well-Being

Covington & Burling, LLP

 Goodwin Procter LLP

Well-Being Star

Husch Blackwell

December 2023

IWIL ALERT

NEWS AND MORE

THE ED REPORT – Denise Gaskin

Welcome to the December issue of the IWIL Alert. Our Programming Team, led by VP of Programming Anne Brafford, JD, MAPP, has designed a fantastic line-up of speakers and topics for our 2024 Well-Being in Law Conference, which will be held virtually January 23-25, 2024. Register here to take advantage of the Early Bird Discount. The discount rate ends on December 16!

 

Kicking off on December 6, 2023, is The Path to Well-Being: Speaker Series! This NEW series offers you cutting-edge ideas with practical solutions. The first in our line-up is Behavioral Scientist Dr. Scott Rigby, who has concrete strategies to promote lawyer and professional staff engagement and well-being. We are bringing a series of speakers throughout 2024. The full schedule is coming in January.

 

Do you know someone who has been an exemplary champion of systemic change in legal professional well-being? We are accepting nominations for the Reed Smith Award, which was created to acknowledge and thank a dedicated champion of well-being among us. Please submit your nominations via our online application form. The deadline to submit is December 31, 2023. The winner will be announced at our Well-Being Conference!

 

Our Well-Being Community continues to grow and evolve, with over 4,700 subscribers today. Please help us continue our Mission to make Well-Being a core centerpiece of professional success. We invite you to share this newsletter with others in your network. Encourage your peers, coworkers, and friends to subscribe to IWIL today: Join the Movement!

I wish you a well and wonderful Holiday Season!

THE PATH TO WELL-BEING SPEAKER SERIES

Dr. Rigby kicks off the first presentation in our new Speaker Series. Next year, we will feature over 20 well-being topics from expert speakers. Our Speaker Series for 2024 will be announced soon!

Date: December 6, 2023

Time: 1:00-2:30 pm ET

Cost: $100

CLE Credits Available

Post-Pandemic Rules of (Re)Engagement: Concrete Strategies to Promote Lawyer Engagement & Well-Being.

Dr. Scott Rigby is an author, behavioral scientist, and founder/CEO of motivationWorks!, a company focusing on the application of behavioral science to organizations, products, and services. Scott and motivationWorks work with both small and large companies on culture and the development of motivational best practices. He is a leading authority on predictive measurement of motivation and engagement, as well as on interventions to improve organizational culture. Clients include Prudential, Amazon, Warner Brothers, Johnson & Johnson, and Disney.

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IWIL CONFERENCE

Join us for the nation’s largest legal well-being conference on January 23-25, 2024!  #IWIL2024

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MEET A FEW OF OUR CONFERENCE PRESENTATIONS & PRESENTERS

Rethinking Thinking Like a Lawyer

Presented by: Francesca Acocella (Senior Director of Student Life, Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law), Krista Larson (Director of Well-Being, Stinson LLP), Shailini George (Professor, Suffolk University Law School)

 

How law school and the practice of law trains attorneys to ìthink like a lawyer,î which includes legal analysis, risk aversion, attention to detail, and strong judgment in challenging situations. While this skeptical mindset may be appropriate and desirable in certain aspects of the practice of law, these professional advantages can come with serious personal costs. Specifically, pessimism can carry a significant risk for mental health challenges.

Join the speakers as they explore with you how to:

  1. Understand the ABA standards requiring instruction on professional identity.
  2. Develop an understanding of the relationship between well-being and professional identity.
  3. Learn concrete skills based on the science of Positive Psychology for developing and sustaining a strong professional identity in practice.

Journeys Unveiled: Navigating Mental Health and Advocacy for Black Women in the Legal Profession

Michell Hughes (Assistant Director, NAMI), Kris Mereigh (Director of Well-Being, Covington & Burling, LLC), Marcia Narine Weldon (Director of Transactional Skills Program, Lecturer, University of Miami School of Law Coral Gables)

?Black women in the legal profession often face distinct challenges in their pursuit of well-being. This panel aims to explore a critical and often overlooked aspect of well-being in the legal field ñ the unique experiences of black women legal professionals who have lived experience with mental health challenges and who have used their experience and journey to become advocates for the profession as a whole.

This panel engages the audience through the following six strategies:

  1. Authentic stories
  2. Thought leadership & expertise
  3. Intersectionality and representation
  4. Interactive discussions
  5. Practical tools & takeaways
  6. Inspirational journeys

Smarter Collaboration For Better Health & Well-Being

Presented by: Dr. Heidi Gardner (Distinguished Fellow Harvard Law School, and Bestselling Author, Gardner & Co.) and Csilla Ilkei (Insights Director, Gardner & Co.)

 

Stressors, like heightened internal and client expectations, economic headwinds, rapidly evolving technology, and burgeoning workloads, are taking their toll, causing one in four employees globally to feel burned out. Research shows that the effect on lawyers and law firm staff is even higher. These factors are compounded by the tension of office versus home working, which requires new, creative ways to collaborate within and between teams that are increasingly siloed and fragmented.

In this session, you will:

  1. Gain a solid understanding of what smart collaboration looks like in day-to-day legal work, including how it sparks diversity and inclusion.
  2. Understand the short- and long-term mental health benefits of smart collaboration in legal.
  3. Apply three smarter collaboration practices right away to boost the well-being and health of others.

Client Driven Culture Change: A New Frontier in the Well-Being Movement

This session includes a robust panel hosted by Shannon Callahan (Senior Attorney & Development & Retention Manager, Nixon Peabody) and Ben Carpenter (Senior VP and Deputy GC, U.S. Bank). 

 

Modeled on the Mindful Business Charter (which has been adopted by a broad base of large law firms and banks as reflected here), US Bank and seven roundtable law firms collaborated to create the outside counsel engagement guidelines. Both the charter and the guidelines are intended to help clients and their outside counsel interact with well-being in mind and cover topics such as out-of-office time, emergencies, communication habits and preferences, and other topics. 

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Sponsorship opportunities are still available for #IWIL24. Please contact Denise Gaskin at denise@lawyerwellbeing.net.

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FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Join The Conversation on YouTube

Follow IWIL’s YouTube for the latest news and info.

Path To Well-Being in Law Podcast

A podcast presented by the National Task Force on Lawyer Well-Being. Powered by ALPS

Listen to wherever you get your podcasts.

Follow The Conversation on LinkedIn

Stay updated on important information, events, and connect with other IWIL members by joining our LinkedIn page.

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Special thanks to our principal donors:

Inaugural Founding Champions 

Crowell & Moring LLP

Katten Muchin Rosenman LLP

Latham & Watkins, LLP

Morgan, Lewis & Bockius LLP

Reed Smith LLP

Founding Champions

Akin Gump Strauss Hauer & Feld LLP

Mintz, Levin, Cohn, Ferris, Glovsky and Popeo, P.C.

Orrick, Herrington & Sutcliffe LLP

Thomson Reuters

Master of Well-Being

Covington & Burling, LLP

 Goodwin Procter LLP

Well-Being Star

Husch Blackwell